Being fingered by a guy is something we all feel at some point – and often as teens. Essentially the phrase is talking about petting and foreplay.
As a guy starts to get you ready for sex, he will touch your body. This touching causes your vagina to get wet and ensures that you are ready for intercourse. Often, the touching starts up top with your chest. He will rub your breasts and nipples. Then, his hands move down your body. A quick tummy rub usually leads to his fingers slipping into your pants. At first, a guy will normally rub through your pants or go inside and rub through your panties. As he progresses, he will then move to rubbing inside your panties so his hand is directly against your vulva.
The tips of his fingers will then be directly against the entrance to your vagina. Your wetness combined with gentle pressure will cause your vagina to open and one or more fingers to go inside your body. This act of his fingers going inside your vagina is called fingering.
If you are still a virgin just one finger will make you feel full. If you’ve had sex a few times, he may well insert two fingers so that you feel fuller.
If sex isn’t possible – for example if you are being touched at school or in public, fingering will be the end of the encounter and will just leave you aroused and wishing you could have more.
If sex is possible, fingering is often the last step before actual intercourse begins.
